At the Unwritten Academy, my mission is to teach teen girls what most don’t learn until adulthood: how to lead themselves—mentally, emotionally, and energetically—for the rest of their lives. Through a transformative blend of neuroscience, inner wisdom, and emotional mastery, I give girls the tools to regulate their nervous systems, trust their intuition, speak with clarity, and lead their lives from a place of calm, confidence, and courage.
Because every girl deserves to rise before the world tells her to shrink. To write her own story before someone else hands her the script. And to lead herself—not later—but now.
At the Unwritten Academy, my mission is to teach teen girls what most don’t learn until adulthood: how to lead themselves—mentally, emotionally, and energetically—for the rest of their lives. Through a transformative blend of neuroscience, inner wisdom, and emotional mastery, I give girls the tools to regulate their nervous systems, trust their intuition, speak with clarity, and lead their lives from a place of calm, confidence, and courage.
Because every girl deserves to rise before the world tells her to shrink. To write her own story before someone else hands her the script. And to lead herself—not later—but now.
Let's talk about how the Unwritten Academy can support her journey to becoming her most empowered self.
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Unwritten is more than a program; it’s a proven system that gives girls the real, repeatable skills to live powerfully for life.
For nearly twenty years, Renae has guided over a thousand teen girls from around the world through her proven method—designed to build deep self-trust, activate emotional and intuitive intelligence, and equip them to navigate life with emotional clarity, personal integrity and the courage to live life on their own terms.
With these tools, girls don’t just feel empowered in the moment; they become the kind of women who lead, influence, and create change wherever they go. They learn to speak with conviction, make powerful choices, and own their presence—unshakably, unapologetically, and for life.
This isn’t just empowerment. It’s the mastery of self—an edge that lasts a lifetime.
let's give them what we didn't know
DEAR MOM
I have empowered thousands of girls that are wildly unique to one another but one of the most common things described is how the daughters try to protect the parents, "my daughter is fine". External metrics don't tell the full story, "I'm fine" can be said even when cracks start to appear. This isn't therapy, this is for girls who want more. To be shown a more powerful way to move through life.
I don’t have to tell you about the stresses and pressures that teenage girls face today. Imagine if your daughter had the tools to stand strong and stay true to who she is. No matter how smart, determined, or popular your daughter is, she’s facing challenges that feel overwhelming.
And you know better than anyone how that’s affecting her on the outside.
But you can’t see everything she’s saying to herself on the inside.
The truth is, right now she’s forming that inner dialogue and unfortunately it’s largely based on what her friends and social media are telling her.
About how the world works, how she fits in (or doesn’t), what she needs to do (or be) to make her life work.
You know the impact that her inner dialogue will have in determining her destiny, for better or worse.
learning how to be your authentic powerful self
The earlier you start the process of making sure that she hears all your best advice from someone else, has the right messages about herself - not what social media and other external validation tells her it is but her inner truth, the better shot she has at succeeding in life.
Do you find yourself asking:
That's where I come in, or more aptly, where we come in together.
It really does take a village to raise a child. Even more so when it comes to raising a strong, confident, fully expressed girl in today’s world.
We can ensure she has a solid foundation by giving her an extra edge-and it starts by empowering her on the inside!
Give her the opportunity to be equipped with the inner skill sets required for her to no longer live by default, but design.
I don’t have to tell you about the stresses and pressures that teenage girls face today. Imagine if your daughter had the tools to stand strong and stay true to who she is. No matter how smart, determined, or popular your daughter is, she’s facing challenges that feel overwhelming.
And you know better than anyone how that’s affecting her on the outside.
But you can’t see everything she’s saying to herself on the inside.
The truth is, right now she’s forming that inner dialog and unfortunately it’s largely based on what her friends and social media are telling her.
About how the world works, how she fits in (or doesn’t), what she needs to do (or be) to make her life work.
You know the impact that her inner dialog will have in determining her destiny, for better or worse.
I don’t have to tell you about the stresses and pressures that teenage girls face today. Imagine if your daughter had the tools to stand strong and stay true to who she is. No matter how smart, determined, or popular your daughter is, she’s facing challenges that feel overwhelming.
And you know better than anyone how that’s affecting her on the outside.
But you can’t see everything she’s saying to herself on the inside.
The truth is, right now she’s forming that inner dialog and unfortunately it’s largely based on what her friends and social media are telling her.
About how the world works, how she fits in (or doesn’t), what she needs to do (or be) to make her life work.
You know the impact that her inner dialog will have in determining her destiny, for better or worse.
And you know better than anyone how that’s affecting her on the outside.
But you can’t see everything she’s saying to herself on the inside.
The truth is, right now she’s forming that inner dialog and unfortunately it’s largely based on what her friends and social media are telling her.
About how the world works, how she fits in (or doesn’t), what she needs to do (or be) to make her life work.
You know the impact that her inner dialog will have in determining her destiny, for better or worse.
And you know better than anyone how that’s affecting her on the outside.
But you can’t see everything she’s saying to herself on the inside.
The truth is, right now she’s forming that inner dialog and unfortunately it’s largely based on what her friends and social media are telling her.
About how the world works, how she fits in (or doesn’t), what she needs to do (or be) to make her life work.
You know the impact that her inner dialog will have in determining her destiny, for better or worse.
learning how to be your authentic powerful self
The earlier you start the process of making sure that she hears all your best advice from someone else, has the right messages about herself - not what social media and other external validation tells her it is but her inner truth, the better shot she has at succeeding in life.
The earlier you start the process of making sure that she hears all your best advice from someone else, has the right messages about herself - not what social media and other external validation tells her it is but her inner truth,
the better shot she has at succeeding in life.
Do you find yourself asking:
Do you find yourself asking:
That's where I come in, or more aptly,
where we come in together.
It really does take a village to raise a child. Even more so when it comes to raising a strong, confident, fully expressed girl in today’s world.
We can ensure she has a solid foundation by giving her an extra edge - and it starts by empowering her on the inside!
Give her the opportunity to be equipped with the inner skill sets required for her to no longer live by default, but design her destiny.
That's where I come in, or more aptly,
where we come in together.
It really does take a village to raise a child. Even more so when it comes to raising a strong, confident, fully expressed girl in today’s world.
We can ensure she has a solid foundation by giving her an extra edge - and it starts by empowering her on the inside!
Give her the opportunity to be equipped with the inner skill sets required for her to no longer live by default, but design her destiny.
LIVE BY DESIGN, NOT BY DEFAULT
The Unwritten Academy is for girls around the globe who are destined to be the next generation of leaders (even if they may not yet see themselves that way). We connect virtually and your daughter has access to a community of like-minded friends, and expert guests. Your daughter will learn how to make the shift from looking outside herself for answers to trusting herself and her own inner compass. The Academy also strengthens the mother-daughter bond and provides them with information that they don’t even know they need.
HELP YOUR TEEN OWN HER POWER
A 14-WEEK TRANSFORMATION FOR TEEN GIRLS
LIVE BY DESIGN, NOT BY DEFAULT
The Unwritten Academy is for girls around the globe who are destined to be the next generation of leaders (even if they may not yet see themselves that way). We connect virtually and your daughter has access to a community of like-minded friends, and expert guests. Your daughter will learn how to make the shift from looking outside herself for answers to trusting herself and her own inner compass. The Academy also strengthens the mother-daughter bond and provides them with information that they don’t even know they need.
HELP YOUR TEEN OWN HER POWER
A 14-WEEK TRANSFORMATION FOR TEEN GIRLS
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"At a time when my daughter couldn’t hear my voice, it meant everything to have a strong, loving woman speak into her life. Renae reflected my values—but in a way my daughter could actually hear, understand, and apply. I’m forever grateful for the empowering work Renae is doing with teen girls. Her care and wisdom pour out of everything she does."
ANGIE NILSSON
"I’m forever grateful to Renae for being the voice my daughter needed. She’s helped her grow into a strong, confident young woman who knows how to handle conflict and teen drama with grace. As moms, we want to be the fixers—but sometimes our girls need to hear it from someone else. And Renae is truly the best. I couldn’t recommend her more."
kim aliprantis
"Renae speaks with power and purpose. She’s authentic, intentional, and truly a GPS for teen girls. Both of our daughters attended Beautiful Inside Academy in 2020 and gained powerful tools to navigate life, communicate more confidently, and believe in themselves. We’re so proud of who they’ve become—and incredibly grateful for the strength and skills Renae helped unlock in them."
aNDREA hAYNES
"Within minutes of speaking with Renae, I knew she was the perfect fit for my daughter. Her heart, passion, and understanding were so clear. I enrolled my daughter in 1:1 sessions right away, and within weeks, I saw her confidence return—she began speaking more positively and holding her head higher. Renae helped her reconnect with the strong, powerful young woman within . My heart melted. I’m so incredibly grateful."
Tenille c.
"The Academy has been an incredible blessing for my daughter Ayla. Before joining, she was shy and unsure of her voice. Renae understood her and worked tirelessly to help her uncover her inner strength. As a mother, I believe in investing in our daughters’ confidence—and Renae’s guidance has been invaluable. Ayla now feels empowered, seen, and ready to take on the world. I only wish something like this existed when I was younger."
Tiffany oriold
"My daughter began working with Renae during the chaos of 2020—and while the world felt uncertain, she flourished. Through Renae’s coaching, she gained the maturity and emotional strength to end a long-standing toxic friendship and step into her teenage years with confidence and clarity. Those tools carried her into young adulthood—and now, into a beautiful new marriage. Unwritten Academy lives up to its name. I can’t wait to enroll my next daughter this fall."
Tasha reeve
"The Academy helped my daughter rediscover her confidence, self-worth, and smile. Renae was kind yet firm, guiding her to see life as happening for her, not to her—and to own the story she wants to write. If your daughter is brilliant but doubts it, kind but feels unappreciated, or beautiful but feels unseen, this program will give her the tools, support, and empowerment she needs to step into who she’s meant to be. Thank you for helping my girl find herself again."
Havilah Vangroll
"I cannot express enough gratitude for the impact Renae has had on my daughters—and so many others. Her patience, encouragement, and unwavering belief in them have helped shape them into confident, strong, and self-assured young women.
What makes Renae truly special is not just her ability to guide, but to inspire. She’s taught my girls to know their worth, to embrace their inner strength, and to become the queens of their own hearts. The confidence they carry today isn’t just about skills—it’s a deep, lifelong knowing that they are enough. As a mother of three daughters, I’m beyond grateful they’ve had the privilege to learn from someone as gifted, devoted, and impactful as Renae. She’s a mentor, a role model, and a source of strength for every girl she meets."
sara garcia
"Renae truly cares about teaching teen girls a different way to think and be that builds inner strength and supports their authenticity and soul's purpose. Her program is a much-needed antidote to the narrative young girls and women are commonly sold on social media. I am honored to know her and have had my daughter work with her"
Jen Grosso
"We had such a fantastic experience with Renae and Beautiful Inside Academy! Kiah was hesitant at first, but once she met Renae and got started, she was excited to continue. We watched her reconnect with her worth and return to the confident young woman we’ve always known. This was an incredibly valuable investment in our daughter—she’s gained tools and skills she’ll carry for life."
Naomi Wendorff
I'm an award-winning International Teen Girl Empowerment Coach who started the Unwritten Academy almost two decades ago. I empower teen girls to know their worth, own their power, and show up as strong confident teen girls trusting the relationship that matters most, the one with themselves.
I'm an award-winning International Teen Girl Empowerment Coach who started The Unwritten Academy almost two decades ago. I empower teen girls to know their worth, own their power, and show up as strong confident teen girls trusting the relationship that matters most, the one with themselves.